Kirikino remembers what it took to free herself to speak out and stop pleasing others. First, she remembers a job she had to quit because she grew tired of following the rules, keeping the peace, and speaking only when she was spoken to, while her soul was screaming. She felt like the system, which was supposed to protect children, failed them. She could not take it anymore, so she quit. Later on, she became a mother, and it made her realize she no longer needed to chase people's approval or try to fit into parenting models. Motherhood was the beginning of her awakening that made her stronger. Throughout this journey, Kirikino invites others to see how she broke free.

In her work, Kirikino honestly examines the underlying reasons behind her tendency to conceal her true self. This journey began in her childhood, when she felt compelled to suppress her authentic identity to please others. She concealed parts of herself that she deemed too wild and experienced the invalidation of her feelings during her formative years. By addressing her childhood experiences, the author aims to connect with readers who may have faced similar struggles. This shared understanding creates a deeper bond between the writer and her audience. Kirikino emphasizes the importance of not allowing others to define who you are, advocating for the necessity of personal growth rather than solely seeking external healing. Drawing from her own experiences, she encourages others to embark on their own healing paths. Throughout her writing, Kirikino is candid about her thoughts and emotions, a transparency that may inspire others to do likewise.

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